Wednesday, January 11, 2012

I am sooo angry!! What should I do?

My children frequently play football, hide and seek, etc in the common area of our housing development with other neighborhood kids. A week ago we received a letter in the mail from our condo association stating that neighbor(s) are complaining that my kids are a nuisance to the neighborhood based on the condominium agreement because they keep too much noise. Granted their were 2 brothers that would play rough and be noisy, but I always called them on it and when it got to the point that they were not listening, I told them not to come back and play at our house. It is a community area and I have no more right to keep them from it than anyone else, so they kept coming back. Those are NOT my kids and leading up to the complaint I would not allow my child to play with them any longer so they haven't come around. It was also insinuated that I am a non-attentive parent who doesn't supervise my children. I am very attentive and keep a watchful eye on my kids so this was particularly hurtful.I know this complaint and insult was made by a particular neighbor who has falsely accused me and my children of things in the past and before, to keep the peace, we just quietly acquiesced. But enough is enough. This woman has gone too far and not only that, but she has recruited another neighbor to "her side", who actually taught my son to play football and would frequently play with him before this complaint. Now he doesn't eve talk to us anymore, let alone my son who actually looked up to him. All because of this person who apparently has no tolerance for children and has created this wedge in what used to be a friendly outgoing neighborhood. None of the other neighbors complain. I really am tempted to throw eggs at her house or slash her tires, but that would only get me in trouble and would not solve the problem. But I am mad and frustrated and want to know if I have any legal recourse. Or any suggestions to help me redeem my name in the neighborhood again and not feel shut into my own house by a woman who probably needs to move to a senior community. Please help.I am sooo angry!! What should I do?
well i see u have a relly big problem and child has every right to play outside! %26gt;:(enjoy the youth! and also u should face the people who is complaining and tell them what there problem and find a way to fix the problem^_^ and havent u thought that they could do some kind of activity like at school or hang out with friends?



p.s i under stand that because i use to be a loud moth in my old neighborhood :D and my mom had to talk to the ppl and she had to trust me not to be so loud, trust ur kids but keep an eye on them :)
I'm not reading all that crap.I am sooo angry!! What should I do?
Just because it is a community area, it doesn't mean it's fair for your kids to be loud and act like animals. Sounds like everyone is quiet and peaceful except your boys. You even said your boys don't listen. Others are probably equally annoyed but he has the bravery and integrity to speak him mind. You should try listening rather than reacting like that.



Since you said you are tempted to throw eggs or slash his tires, I can tell you're an awful mother. That's why your boys don't listen to you and they are causing problems in the peaceful community.



Also, I recommend you go to an anger management class.
yu cud beat up there chlidrun and then the wud be to scared of you to make fight with youI am sooo angry!! What should I do?
its so long
Well you should either call her out on it in person and have a talk with her, or go to your other neighbors and try to get them to take your side. You need communication.
ill answer if you cut this down to three words
Keep your kids quiet and make them play at the playground.

-"None of the other neighbors complain"....because it may not be that big of a deal to them even though it's still annoying, I'd bet they rather not have to listen to YOUR kids(or their friends) play loudly.



I don't want to sound mean but they are children and I know how that goes, be a good neighbor and reign your lil' angels in.

-call the cops on the other kids for trespassing if they don't live there.
Maybe you should take this as your cue to sell your condo and move to a regular house. Besides all the crap you're dealing with, there are a bunch of other reasons NOT to buy a condo. Basically, when you buy a condo, you're just buying air, believe it or not. You don't own one wall of the building, any land, or anything tangible. Yet you're still paying taxes and monthly association fees (something you wouldn't pay if you owned a regular house). You're paying property taxes when you don't own any property. I'd talk to a realtor ASAP and put the condo up for sale and start looking for a house.
Your kids are loud and people complained. Keep them quiet and have them play else where. Get over it or move.
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